Being single is not as easy as it seems. In today’s world of glamour, being in a relationship is the new trend. But it is not the same for everyone. Some people might find their partners early, some might find them late in their life or some might even never find them. But life goes on and it goes on well. Being single can help you with a lot of matters you face in your life. Being single actually makes you strong to face them independently. It gives you a chance to love yourself. Being single is self-grooming. Well, in other words being single can actually improve your life. Your perseverance towards the idea of being single greatly defines your personality and your life. Do not worry if you are single right now because following are some of the perks you can enjoy being single:
Being in a relationship shifts your focus from yourself to your partner. You look for things to do, to eat, how to dress, etc. as your partner like. But it makes you lose your individuality. Being single makes you self-aware of your likes and dislikes. Being single is a journey to explore yourself. You can chase after your dreams, desires, and goals, once you are self-aware of them. It will give you the peace of mind. It will allow you to follow the path of your own choice without depending on your partner.
- Doing things alone:
You can do anything, anytime you want. You don’t have to check with anybody. It is your choice. Want to go for movies? Pick your favorite one and go for it. Want to travel? Just pack your things and go wherever you want. Want to eat somewhere fancy? Pick your restaurant and order your favorite dish! Doing all of these things alone give you a special me-time. Moreover, when you experience these things alone, you learn a lot of things. You can actually enjoy it to the most. You do things, you love. You do not have to be pressurized to eat something you don’t want but your partner does. And that’s how being single will save you from that misery.
- You can flirt:
You have the freedom to flirt when you are single. Being single doesn’t mean that you will not get into a relationship ever. It actually gives you some time to find your better half. You can flirt with anyone without any fear of anybody. You can flirt as long as you can find an ideal match or forever if you are not looking for one. Flirting makes you happy. Do it as long as you are single!
- Saves your time:
Being single actually is a big time-saver. It saves you all the time you would be spending in texting, calling, dating, sleepovers, etc. if you were in a relationship. You can save your time by not looking for your partner as people actually do it their whole life. You can actually utilize that time in learning new things e.g. learn a language or a musical instrument or apply for short courses to support your career.
- Makes you emotionally stable:
When you are in a relationship, you are experienced with a mixture of emotions at the same time. It makes you confused about emotional needs. The relationship makes you jealous, obsessive, crazy and fearful. It disturbs your whole personality. But a single person does not have to face all of these emotions at once. Single persons are comparatively emotionally sensible.
- Saves money:
Being single has many benefits but an interesting one is a financial benefit. You do not have to spend money on your fancy dates, weekly or monthly or yearly anniversaries, valentine’s day, of course! You buy anything for one, not for two. Being single gives you a chance to save better and quicker.
- Makes you healthy:
Being single actually makes you healthy. According to Science, single people stay happier than couples. It gives you time to work on yourself. Single people work out every day. They are less likely to gain weight as per research. Single people don’t have to go through stress or anxiety due to financial and emotional needs of the relationship.
So, if you are single, stay happy and stay the same!